Realizing Recovery Blog – Montana's Peer Network

No Shame in the Struggle

September is a month filled with awareness and reflection, particularly for those of us who have witnessed the power of recovery, resilience, and healing. As we celebrate Recovery Month, it’s a time to acknowledge the often difficult yet transformative journey individuals and families face as they overcome mental health challenges.

For me, this month holds deep meaning. As a mother of two boys and a former Family Peer Supporter, I’ve had the privilege and the heavy responsibility of helping others navigate the complexities of mental health recovery. I’ve worked with families in distress, and I’ve watched individuals confront their deepest struggles. But I’ve also seen the incredible strength, courage, and growth that recovery can bring.

Recovery is a Journey

September is Recovery Month and my last month with Montana’s Peer Network. As the Families Division branches off and becomes a separate family-run organization, Family Peers for Hope, I have been reflecting on my time with MPN and what I have learned about recovery, particularly my own.

Dignity Over Detention

President Trump’s “Ending Crime and Disorder on American’s Streets” executive order from July 24, 2025 is chilling. Under the guise of “law and order” this administration seems to be targeting the most vulnerable populations. This time it is unhoused people but the implications for a wider group of people are obvious. Do we have an issue with people being unable to find and keep adequate housing in this country? Yes, we cannot deny that is a rising problem. There is a misconception that being unhoused is due to laziness, weakness, or a moral failing when it is actually a lack of adequate employment and extremely limited access to affordable housing that are the main causes of homelessness. The Supreme Court’s Grants Pass ruling opened the door to more criminalization by local authorities. Criminalizing homelessness and closing housing programs does not eliminate the issues that cause homelessness in the first place. We can look at least one community in our own state whose elected officials have blamed services for unhoused people as attracting unhoused people to the community and if those services were eliminated, that problem would go away. They even went as far as removing bus stops and requiring people to access public transit through a phone app and credit card.

An Avoidable Tragedy in Montana

When I first got involved with mental health advocacy in 2009, we were urging the legislature to address the broken mental health system. In 2025 advocates are still urging the legislature to address the broken mental health system in Montana. Back then we had funding for a community-based crisis system. We had twice as many crisis beds available, and we had a psychiatric hospital that encouraged and promoted mental health recovery. Today we do not have sustainable funding for statewide crisis services, we have less crisis beds, and we do not follow national standards for Montana State Hospital or for crisis response in Montana. In 2022 Montana lost its federal funding for Montana State Hospital because it repeatedly failed to meet minimum federal standards for health and safety. I would also include the increase in unhoused individuals in nearly every community in our state, many of whom have a mental health diagnosis.

Societal Issues Affecting Mental Health

It is hard to not see suffering on a daily basis around the world, in the United States and here in Montana. When I tune in for my daily dose of news, I am often struck by the lack of awareness around mental health related issues. For example, in Texas where the extreme flooding occurred there is virtually no reporting on mental health counseling, or peer support for the massive amount of grief and loss that is taking place. In the nearly weekly reporting of mass shootings at places of work, schools and in our communities across the nation, we fail to address mental health needs.

Chronic Disease Awareness Day

Managing the physical, mental, and emotional toll of chronic diseases can be isolating for both the individual and their family. As people in recovery and parents/caregivers of children with special healthcare needs including behavioral health, we know firsthand the feelings of frustration, isolation, despair, and hopelessness. We know the challenges of finding treatment and advocating to be heard. We know the hope in finding joy and meaning living with chronic health conditions.

Intersectionality

Millions of people are affected by mental health issues and LGBTQIA+ youth and adults are especially affected. For example, the CDC reports that nearly 48% of LGBTQIA+ youth seriously considered suicide in the past year as compared to their non LGBTQIA+ counterparts. 39% of LGBTQIA+ adults rate their mental health as “fair” or “poor” while 16% of non LGBTQIA+ adult report the same. These disparities are often due to lack of support, discrimination, social rejection, and difficulty accessing care. Being LGBTQIA+ is not the risk factor in itself, the discrimination these people experience is.

Embracing Every Form of Resiliency

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and for me, as someone who walks this path not only for myself but alongside others as a peer and family peer supporter, it’s more than just a calendar observance. It’s a heartfelt invitation. It’s a chance to shine a light on mental well-being, reduce stigma, and encourage real, meaningful conversations about what it means to live with, and rise through, mental health challenges.
But beyond awareness, this month is also a celebration of something that’s often overlooked in clinical discussions: resilience. Real-life, hard-earned, deeply human resilience. I see it every day. In my own life, in the families I support, and in the courageous individuals I walk beside. In a world that constantly demands more, the ability to care for ourselves and each other, to bounce back, to try again, that’s nothing short of heroic in my eyes.

Awareness into Action

Reposted from Mental Health America’s Mental Health Month 2025 Planning Guide While one in five people experience a mental health condition each year, every single one of us has a mind to take care of. Furthermore, mental health is not just a personal issue—it’s a societal one. And the need for action has never been greater.This…
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Mental Health Services Uncertain

May is Mental Health Awareness Month. At least for now. I say that because with all of the federal changes one never knows. What the Department of Government Efficiency will deem inefficient is anyone’s guess. May was first established as mental health awareness month in 1949 by Mental Health America (https://mhanational.org/) the oldest mental health advocacy organization in the United States. You can take a number of mental health screenings for free on their website. They also have resources for further support. Now more than ever mental health advocates need to work to bring awareness to the importance of mental wellbeing.

Daylight Savings Time, More Than Changing Our Clocks

March is daylight savings time when we turn our clocks ahead and gain an extra hour of daylight in the evenings. People look forward to this day all winter. But for some this change can be hard. Turning our clocks ahead means getting up in the dark. It takes our bodies time to adjust to losing an hour of sleep and getting up an hour earlier. Daylight savings time has caused me to think about change in general and how there are always upsides and downsides to change.

The Power of Kindness

Acts of kindness are often seen as simple gestures, yet their impact on mental health can be profound. Whether it’s offering a smile to a stranger, helping a coworker, or volunteering for a cause, kindness can create a ripple effect that benefits both the giver and the recipient. Research has consistently shown that engaging in acts of kindness boosts mental well-being, reducing stress, increasing happiness, and fostering a sense of belonging.

“Creating safe places creates a healing culture!”

I write this blog for the first annual Substance Use Disorder Treatment Month (Treatment Month). SAMHSA recently announced that January 2025 would be the launch of Treatment Month. According to SAMHSA “this serves to support: people contemplating or seeking help for substance use, practitioners treating or considering treating substance use disorder, friends, family and loved ones of people with substance use conditions; by raising awareness of treatment. SAMHSA seeks to: eliminate stigma surrounding treatment, including medications used to treat substance use disorders, encourage those on their treatment and recovery journey, and promote best practices such as screening, intervention, and treatment of substance use disorders by health care professionals.

Reading and the Impact on Wellness

January 3rd was JRR Tolkien’s birthday. He wrote many books but the ones that I am the most familiar with are The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings Trilogy. Although Tolkien died before I was born, I knew his name by Kindergarten. My father began reading The Hobbit to me at night before bed when I was 5. He went on to read me The Lord of the Rings Trilogy. The main character in the Hobbit, Bilbo Baggins, went on a great adventure with a group of dwarves and a wizard to fight a dragon and came across a magic ring that made him disappear. Tolkien’s characters were always finding themselves in trouble, whether it was with trolls or spiders or other enemies. My favorite part is when they escape in wine barrels and tossed into the river to float downstream to a nearby town. My dad actually read all the books twice to me over many years. He loved the books and knew every character and even sang the songs that were written throughout. Since it took us so long to read through each book and then begin again, I couldn’t tell if he knew the tune of the songs or made them up, creating different versions each time he sang them. I loved the stories too, but mostly I loved spending time with my dad.

Reflecting on the Past Year

Reflecting on mental health accomplishments can be an empowering and enlightening exercise. It not only allows you to see how far you’ve come but also provides motivation for continued growth. Here’s a guide to help you recognize and celebrate your mental health milestones over the last year and set a positive tone for the future.

Crow Dog

The United States has the highest incarceration and recidivism rates in the world. Our criminal legal system often causes more harm than good. Yet, we continue to believe this is the best way to address crime in our country. Why do we do this? As a society we have never been shown any other way, so we don’t realize that there are other options aside from punitive measures, such as incarceration. Restorative Justice is just one of the many ways that we can work to better implement justice and to get rid of the inequities that exist within our criminal legal system. Restorative Justice is an Indigenous principal of holding people accountable for a harm they have caused by promoting healing and restoration for the entire community as a whole. When a harm is caused, there are more people affected than just the victim and the offender. Friends, family, neighbors, innocent bystanders, coworkers and whole communities may be affected by the harm caused.

The role of peer support in crisis response

This is one topic I am very familiar with and have spent years advocating in Montana. Our website has specific information on various demonstration projects MPN have operated over the years. It is one of the most asked questions I get when it comes to the implementation of peer supporters. This article will attempt to provide resources, and the “how to” for implementation of peer supporters into your crisis program.

Goodbye Daylight Savings Time

The end of Daylight Saving Time (DST) brings noticeable changes in the environment that can have significant effects on mental health. This seasonal shift, especially the transition to earlier sunsets, can disrupt circadian rhythms, impact mood, and contribute to disorders like seasonal affective disorder (SAD).

I am lovable, I am lovable, I am lovable!

In recognition of Train Your Brain Day on October 13th, I would like to share one of my secrets that I keep in my toolbox and have incorporated them into my Wellness Recovery Action Plan as something that I must do on a daily basis. This is not something that I have made up or can claim any credit for, but merely a tool that was shown to me early in my recovery that I have continued to do for years.

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